On
17th February 2017, Sakura College was the host to a very
accomplished guest speaker, a Mdm. Samsiah Jayos, in conjunction with the
Miftah al Bait 7.0 event. Mdm. Samsiah Jayos is currently a Senior Lecturer of
the Faculty of Cognitive Sciences and Human Development as well as a
Professional Counselor with the Centre of Student Development, UNIMAS. Miftah
al Bait has for the past few years been the platform for motivating the students
whom attended the event. The most recent one had a sharing session with the
title “Excellence Without Soul”. The Program Director, a Ms. Sitti Aishah binti
Najamudin mentioned during the event that she hoped that the participants chose
to attend the event with the right intentions. Ms. Sitti Aishah further
expressed her hopes that through attending Miftah al Bait, students would be
able to achieve greater in this semester than the one before and be prepared
for the challenges of the current semester.
Mdm.
Samsiah Jayos explained that her sharing would be mainly about managing
emotions and their role in achieving excellence. She stated that stress is very
important as it is one of the forces driving humanity to excellence. However,
she also expressed that overwhelming stress is not a good thing. Therefore, she
urged students to share their problems if there are any to whomever they trust
such as good friends.
She
gave an expose on the symptoms of emotional disturbance by several categories
such as the physiology and psychology. Physically, the symptoms may include
headache, insomnia and loss of appetite. Psychologically, the symptoms may be
suicidal thoughts, nightmares and others. She advised students to not give up
even if numerous challenges may come. She then gave several ways to handle
emotional disturbances. One of them is to discover the underlying or actual
problem and gauge individual’s capability in resolving it. If students found
themselves unable to solve it on their own, they are encouraged to seek help
from friends, family and even professional help. Seeking professional help (e.g
counselling and therapy) should not be a stigma as everyone faced problems.
Another
important tip that Mdm. Samsiah Jayos gave to students is to have planned their
daily life according to three aspects that is academic, co-curriculum and
personal, placing upon each tasks their appropriate priority and ensuring each
completed as planned as a disruption to any of the three aspects will induce
unnecessary stress.
Before
she ended her sharing, she told the students to not leave their prayers, seek
blessings from their parents and again, she reminded the students to share
their problems if they have any. Throughout the talk, she also showed several
videos. Among those is an inspirational and motivational regarding Nick Vujic,
a renowned motivational speaker with the slogan “Attitude is altitude”, whose
philosophy is about personal outlook or attitude and how they should influence
an individual’s life.
After
the talk, the guest speaker, Mdm. Samsiah Jayos, was a presented a small gift
of appreciation by the Principal, Ms. Siti Nor Ain binti Haji Musa while
accompanied by the Program Director, Ms. Sitti Aishah. There was also a group photo at the end of the event. The event was also
attended by the two fellows of Sakura College, that are, Ms. Noorfarida binti
Saini and Dr. Hasmaliana binti Abdul Manas.
By: Pliny Narong
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